The Last Few Precious Moments are now here

They are now just about to depart, by the Departure Entrance...me clenching my fists to channel the energy- Alhamdulillah I did not breakdown in front of them. Didn't want them to have that picture in their minds when the flashback to those precious times. I want them to remember me smiling and proud of them.

My first baby has flown the nest ...

                          

Time to go home

                                    

It's the D-day

We are now at Gatwick Airport with the families minus a couple. Emotions going all over the place at the moment. Last breakfast together at the airport listening to Bob Marley - Three Little Birds .. Everything's going to be alright.

And it's the night before the last

And it's the night before the last night and Liyana will be off to Trinidad with her hubby. Strange feeling for me. I'm not sure what . I guess it's all happening so fast. I haven't been able to properly digest she is someone's wife and now they are off to start their own life on their own together. 

Wierd that I'll count two less heads when it's 'cooking for the family' day. I will not miss the cooking but will miss seeing them enjoy the food no matter how bad it turns out...usually it is actually good though ;)

Hay-ho life goes on. I'm happy for them, they are doing what I did 15 years ago, left my home country to make ends meet. Never regretted a second of it. If we didn't leave then, I can't think how we would survive the economic downturn during those years. Alhamdulillah we made the right decision to come to England and start our life here. Only for them, they have it all cut out for them... It's an opportunity not to be missed. Perhaps one day they will return to England to settle down, InshaAllah.

My prayers will be with you both always.

Peveril Castle - Peak District - 8th September 2013

It was time to drop Nashrah off back at Uni with all her belongings. Now into second year of her degree, she has now moved out of campus into a lovely residential area in Handsworth Wood, Birmingham. A massive house with massive bedrooms, this is where she will spend the next year with 5 other Uni mates. Rather unusual for such a beautiful house as student residence, well looked after and a big garden too, big enough for another town house I would say.
We took the opportunity of having to drive up north to spend the weekend away and walk the Peak District. So after Birmingham, we visited a friend living in Liverpool and had a lovely dinner at theirs. We then head to Manchester where we had booked a room so we can walk the Peak District the following Sunday.
Early morning, we made sure we had our big breakfast, eggs, beans, mushrooms, quorn sausages, toast, hash browns and tomatoes! That's as English breakfast as you can get for us!
We then drove through Glossop into the National Park via Snake Pass.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Snake_Pass

We started from Peveril Castle in the beautiful village of Castleton. We walked/climbed the Cave Dale Trail. Wow that was a challenge. Suffered burning muscles descending that lasted the next few days.

 

   

  

  

  

Durlston Castle in Swanage - 25th Aug 2013

One of our favourite hobbies is to do random trips to various cities/towns, kind of doing trips on impulse. Luckily I have a husband who enjoys putting up with my on-the-spot requests and enjoys country driving. We would just pack a bag and go for a 2 or 3 hour trip away from home.
That's one of the best things about living in the UK, everywhere is just hours away and commutable by car or train.  We have decided once the kids have all left home, we will get ourselves a motorhome and just travel from one town to another, kind of like that family who drove from somewhere in the north of UK to Malaysia. Awesome! They would stop at campsites over a couple of nights to take a break and start driving again.
These days we do day trips away or weekends away, just find a travelodge for the night so we could go for our leisure walks to enjoy the beautiful countrysides and National Parks.
About 3 weeks ago, we decided to visit a friend who were were camping down in Swanage. We didn't camp as our camping days are over - been there, done that when the kids were young.
We arrived Swanage early in the morning about 9, had a good big breakfast, ready for our walk later in the day.

Steam Engine passing through the campsite

We then went to Durlston Castle and it's surroundings in Durlston Country Park .

A day at a time

Not sure of the things that are going through my head and heart at the moment. Took a day off work to spend some value mother - daughter time. Nashrah is back from Uni to spend some time with big sister too.
Last Saturday had a farewell-do for Liyana and Munzir who will be leaving home to move to Trinidad with Munzir's two year work assignment.
In the past year, since last August 2012, the 'proposal', the engagement, the wedding and now the move...all happened. It certainly is their year.
Nadiah too will be moving to Australia for a year in October 2013 for a Gap year. All exciting for her too.
Nashrah will be going back to Uni in Birmingham.
That leaves just the three of us at home.  It will be all strange to start, but I'm sure we will get used to it.
Too many things happening and yet I signed up for a course as well-a course completely out of my comfort zone! It is like I haven't got enough going on or is this my escape route to distract me??
I just have to take it a day at a time until things get back to 'normal'??